And keep a good conscience so that in the thing in which you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ will be put to shame. For it is better, if God should will it so, that you suffer for doing what is right rather than for doing what is wrong.
1 Peter 3:16
What do you do when the boss or your spouse or your friend tells you to do something that is wrong?
There are a couple of choices - you can say, "I am not going to do it." or you can do nothing and say nothing, or you can slow role your involvement and hope the issue corrects itself. Or, you can come right out with it and tell them why what they want you to do is wrong.
These may not help your standing, but at least you maintain your values. And, standing up for what you believe to be right may cost you your job, or your spouse, or your friend. Not to mention that it may result in some not to nice gossip about you. I call it gossip because the truth about what actually happened may well be distorted.
Peter says it is better to suffer for doing what is right than for doing what is wrong. And he is right, because if you cannot look yourself in the mirror without feeling guilty, then you are in a sad state.