No Bone of Contention

Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.

Ephesians 4:32

Every now and then a friend will do something that we find offensive and they might not even know that we are offended.  

Rather than popping of at them, say we think a minute about what happened and the context in which it happened and decide if the action was intended to offend us or if it was them being them.  

By doing this, we might conclude that we can forgive whatever it was without even confronting the offender.  

No harm, no foul and no hurt feelings.