Forgive

“Then Peter came and said to Him, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?”  Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven….”  

Matthew 18:21-22

Seventy times seven is a lot of forgiveness.  And, that is what we need to do to have peace in our lives – forgive.  When we carry grudges around, we are the ones who suffer mental anguish and stomach aches, not the ones who have offended us.  They go blissfully on their way unaware or uncaring that we are suffering. 

We may try to discuss the problem with our offender, but that may not bring the apology we want.  They may laugh it off or not care.  We don’t even need to tell them that we forgive them if that’s the case, but we need to tell ourselves that we forgive them.  Once we do this, it puts the matter to rest and we can move on unencumbered. 

Jesus gives us better advice than Dr. Phil, and we should take it.